Nice & Naughty World

Social Taboo: Penis Size and Race

2012-01-15T12:13:00.000-06:00

Happy Super Sunday!! As I was sitting here reading the news this morning, I ran across an article about a study on penis sizes, worldwide. Before I read the article, I began to think about stereotypes associated with penis size and race.

Being a black girl from the south, you always heard that black men were superior, both internationally and in the bedroom. I mean, we've all heard the saying "once you go black...(you know the rest)" so I know I am not the only person who has heard this. Once I became older, I started meeting people of other races and hearing their viewpoints on race and penis sizes. Normally, it went like this:

black and African men were the most popular and well endowed (hell, white women love our men more than we do)
white men came in second (sometimes third) in popularity and size
Latinos come in third in size but not in popularity
Asians and Indians come in last in popularity and size

So, of course, I had my own views before I began reading this. I have encountered black men that were not very large and I have seen some white men that were VERY nicely packaged so I was very curious on what the study read. Well, guess what? Most of my stereotypes were confirmed!! Here are the findings:

Men in China, India, Thailand, Indonesia, South Korea, and parts of New Guinea fared the worst and came in with the smallest penises.
The U.S., Russia, Australia, Ethiopia, and Pakistan all came in with the 2nd smallest penises.
Canada, Greenland, Most of Europe, Argentina, and a few other countries came in average.
Ecuadorians (South America) had the 2nd largest penises. (I was super shocked about this).
Men in Congo (Africa) came in first. On average, Congos have the largest penises in the world.

Well, there you go. I was surprised to see that some countries in S. America averaged men with the largest penises. The myth about Asians are mostly...TRUE. Canadian men, while they may have larger penises than men in the U.S., are average. Men in most African countries have larger penises and men in the U.S. has the second smallest (surprise).

If you want to read the entire article and see a map, go here .

Happy Humping!!

Wet & Wild Wednesday

2012-01-11T14:52:00.002-06:00

Hey Guys!! It's Hump Day and you know what that means...

Wet and Wild Wednesday time!!!

The product sure to get your hump day wet and wild is.....

The Deep Stroker Rabbit Vibrator
This rabbit loves to hide in holes! The Deep Stroker Rabbit is made of soft jelly. The internal beads rotate while the shaft moves up and down. A clit-teasing rabbit has long ears and a soft nose to arouse you to climax. The control base has separate switches for the clit teasers vibration, the shafts rotation, and penetration speed. Requires three AA size batteries, not included. The love toy that does it all!
To order, email nicenaughtyblog@gmail.com

Happy Humping!!

Position of the Day: Lotus

2012-01-06T20:00:00.001-06:00

The Position of the day is.....

(drum roll please)

Have you seen a Buddha sitting on a lotus? You know, sits on the butt with legs in a intertwined crossing such that the right foot rests on the left thigh and the left foot rests on the right thigh, with soles facing up. Such a sitting position is called the lotus position. It is also one of the most basic posture of yoga, and does take some flexibility and getting used to.

If a man assumes a lotus posture and a woman sits on the penis of the man, then that's the lotus sex position. That'd be the ultimate zen of copulation. In the illustration above, the boy kneel instead, which decreases penis exposure and does not provide a flat surface for the woman to sit on.

Happy Humping!!

Fantastic Friday!!

2012-01-06T11:37:00.001-06:00

Happy Fantastic Friday!!

I want to talk about something that many people know nothing about (but think they do).....INTIMACY. I see people everyday just going through life using their bodies for sex and never REALLY connect with people. Then they get old, bitter, and never understand why they never experienced a lasting, fulfilling relationship.

First, intimacy has nothing to do with SEX. That is a common misconception. There are many reasons a person cannot become intimate with their mate. The first is the issue of incompatibility. There are millions of couples who are incompatible, trying to make it work and are beating a dead horse. Let that person go and allow yourself to open up enough to allow YOUR perfect mate to come into your life. This will allow you to open up and be intimate.

Another reason one cannot become intimate is because of past issues. Everyone has been through problems but you cannot allow your past issues and actions to destroy your present relationship. The past has to be dealt with before you can move into a new HEALTHY relationship....

How can intimacy problems develop from a couple living together?! By its very nature, common law arrangements miss the single most important ingredient to intimacy: commitment. When you don’t really understand how intimacy is developed, it’s very natural to want to pursue its benefits, and all the while undermine the very thing you’re trying to get! Romantic and sexual intimacy don’t come cheap. They will cost you dearly: giving your spouse unconditional love and sacrificial commitment in marriage. But the return on your investment will be absolutely amazing!

These are just a few of the many reasons why many couples never experience the intimacy REAL relationships have. Like I have always believed...Get yourself straight and your world will follow.

Happy Humping!!

Wet & Wild Wednesday

2011-12-21T13:38:00.000-06:00

Well, it's that time of the week again....Wet & Wild Wednesday!! Since it's almost Christmas time, let's see what we can find in my little trunk....

Rene Rofe Suspender Bodystocking

This is the Rene Rofe Suspender Bodystocking...It is sure to get your bedroom wet and wild anytime. This crotchless bosystocking comes in pink or black and leaves nothing to the imagination....sure to add some playfulness into your bedroom encouters.

If you are interested in ordering, email nicenaughtyblog@gmail.com.

Happy Humping!!

Super Sunday!!!!

2011-12-18T18:11:00.000-06:00

Wassup? It's Super Sunday again....The position for this week will be

(drumroll please)

You have to hand over the reins to him, but it’s worth it. For those who know the power of the G-spot, the deep, intense penetration will send you spinning. And there’s no reason he can’t be doing double duty. The G-Force is the perfect position for him to be inside you while using his hand to stimulate your clitoris. If you can surrender your on-top status, this is one position where the Force will be with you.

How to do it

Lie down on your back and pull your knees close to your chest. Ask your guy to kneel in front of you, grabbing hold of your feet with his hands. Have him penetrate you, thrusting forward from his hips. Looking to add even more God-that’s-good action? Put your feet on his chest and have him hold on to your hips — it’ll give him extra control and let him plunge even farther.

Happy Humping!!

Position of the Day: The Congress of the Crow

2011-12-16T09:48:00.000-06:00

Position of the Day

The Congress of the Crow

This oral position is basically the same as the '69', in that it allows both of you to pleasure each other at the same time. Each of you lies in a semi-foetal positon with your head by the other's privates, giving easy access to do what you like with them.

One tip - don't concentrate too hard or you might forget to enjoy yourself!

Happy Humping!!

Wet & Wild Wednesday

2011-12-14T09:11:00.001-06:00

It's Wet & Wild Wednesday!! The product for today is....(drumroll please....)

Chateau Blanc

Chateau Blanc Vibe with Charger is a unique mini vibrator that features 10 vibration modes, dual digitally controlled motors, USB charging terminal for its rechargeable battery and some other very attractive peculiarities that will surely appeal to many devotees of sex toys enjoyment. But you buy one thing and get two, because this discreet massager comes in the case that looks like a bottle of expensive French vintage vine and can easily decorate your bed room (and your kids won't find your toy).

These are available for purchase...Email nicenaughtyblog@gmail.com for more info.

Happy Humping!!

Position of the Day: Indrani

2011-12-14T08:35:00.000-06:00

Position of the Day

Indrani

The Kamasutra position "Indrani" is an oldie but goodie for us all. Indrani makes it easier to accomodate men with larger packages and stimulate the illusive g-spot.

How to do it

Lie on your back with your knees bent up to your chest. Your man then kneels behind you and enters you. You can pull him towards you by clasping your hands behind his bum and rest your legs by his armpits or push your feet against his chest.

Happy Humping!!

Super Sunday!!

2011-12-11T13:43:00.001-06:00

Super Sunday!!

Soooo....It's Sunday! Here is a position for all of you that like a challenge. Here's the Lotus...

Great for yoga lovers, this position might challenge you a little bit but is definitely worth a go. You lie on your back and cross your legs and bring them as much towards your chest as possible. He then thrusts in and out of you - all you've got to do is hold the pose! Guaranteed to have a g-spot orgasm!!

Happy Humping!!

Social Taboos: Open Relationships

2011-12-07T09:51:00.001-06:00

Ashton and Demi? Will and Jada? Are they on to something or are they prime examples of the how you can have it all and still not be satisfied? Unless you have been under a rock, you know about the demise of Demi and Ashton's marriage and their "alleged" open relationship. And we have all heard the rumors about Will and Jada being swingers. Now that this has reached mainstream media, is there really something to having an open relationship or is it just another fad?

Just to be clear, I have never thought that monogamy was natural. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE monogamy (hell, it's 2011; it's too dangerous to just be sleeping with different people) and I believe it can be taught. But on the other hand, can you really live life and nurture the connections that you have with persons [of the same or opposite sex] by living a monogamous lifestyle?

Connections
One cannot stop forming connections with people. You meet people everyday. You are bound to be attracted to someone else, and quite possibly, want to see where that connection will lead. But you have a wife or significant other. So what do you do? You contemplate an affair or you totally cut the connection off, severing the relationship. What if you could really go to your mate and be real about the feelings you have for this person and they genuinely understand and tell you to go for it? Could you handle that? Would you even want a relationship like that? What if the shoe was on the other foot?

I believe that open relationships can be a good thing for certain relationships. But there are a few things that need to be understood.

It isn't all about sex... Yes, sex is one part of a relationship but it is not the only thing. Your mate may like her (or him) just as a hanging out buddy or just for convo. Open up and really LISTEN to what your mate is telling you about this person.
Be HONEST about everything... In order for an open relationship to work, you must be completely honest about everything, including your feelings about other people. Talk to your mate openly and honestly and be open to their feedback. Both of you have to be on the same page.
Make sure that your #1 (husband or boyfriend) knows that they are your #1... Your mate has to feel special and know that you respect and care for them deeply and that they come first. They should never have to worry about someone else coming before them.
Make sure your boyfriends (or girlfriends) know your mate comes first... Your mate has to also know that you have a person that comes first in your life but you want to nurture the connection you have with them.
No SECRETS... This is where open relationships go wrong. There should be no secrets. Your mate and (girlfriends or boyfriends) should all know each other. They should all know their place and respect it. If they cannot respect their place, they should not be involved in your open relationship.

Open relationships are not a new thing but more and more people are trying it. Keep it simple, open, and honest and you should be successful.

Happy Humping!!

Position of the Day: The Pair of Tongs

2011-12-07T08:58:00.001-06:00

Position of the Day

Pair of Tongs

The Pair of Tongs is not for the weak or faint of hearts. You (and him) must have considerable arm strength but once the blood gets pumping, you will have an explosive orgasm!!!

How to do it

You lie off the edge of the bed on your side, just with your calves, ankles and feet still on the mattress. You support yourself with your left arm and he holds you up from your waist.
He steps over your left leg and holding your other leg up and enters you while you dangle precariously off the bed! It sounds confusing but will all come together when you get going.

Happy Humping!!

Position of the Day: The Wheelbarrow

2011-12-05T08:38:00.001-06:00

Position of the Day

The Wheelbarrow

The position of the day is a play on my fave position, doggystyle. I love this position because it puts the guy in control and I LOVE male domination in the bedroom. It also gives me a great upper body workout.

How to do it

Get on your hands and feet and have him pick you up by the pelvis. Once he slides his penis inside, grip his waist with your thighs. He then thrusts back and forth, controlling the rhythm and speed. If your arms get tired, try resting on a table or the side of the bed.

Happy Humping!!

Position of the Day: Head Game

2011-12-03T10:02:00.001-06:00

Position of the Day

Head Game

Getting into this position, you may feel like you're headed nowhere — but it's totally worth it once you experience the results. The blood rush from your thighs will intensify the sensations in the pelvic region. Plus, your legs are squeezed together over his shoulders, which guarantees a snug, scintillating fit for him.

How to do it

Start this inverted delight by lying flat on the ground face up. With your hands supporting your lower back, lift your legs and backside way, way up so they're as perpendicular to the ground as you can get them. Have your man kneel before you, grab your ankles, and bring his knees to your shoulders. Then take his hands and ask him to hold your hips — that will steady you both. Hold his thighs for leverage and adjust so your genitals can join for some otherworldly upside-down action.

Happy Humping!!

Position of the Day: Bootyful View

2011-12-02T11:13:00.001-06:00

Position of the Day

Bootyful View

This position allows for great control over speed, depth, and intensity of stimulation. Since you’re facing away, you can feel totally uninhibited, and your partner can enjoy the thrill of the ride.

How to do it

Have your man sit up on the bed so that his legs are extended horizontally toward the foot of the bed. Turn around and straddle him — with your back toward him — and then lower yourself onto his erect penis. Extend your legs back so they are almost behind him, relaxing your torso onto the bed between his feet. Slide up and down and use his feet for leverage.

Happy Humping!!

Position of the Day: The Couch Canoodle

2011-12-01T16:06:00.001-06:00

Position of the Day

The Couch Canoodle

This passion pose supplies the kind of naughty sex scene that all men yearn for. It gives him a full-frontal view of you in action, one that'll undoubtedly fuel his dirtiest fantasies for a long, long time. Plus, because you're the one who sets the speed and timing, you can treat yourself to the exact motions that make you moan with desire and take you over the edge of ecstasy.

How To Do It

Have your partner sit back on a couch (or a comfy chair). Straddle his lap with your legs splayed apart and your knees bent up against his chest. Slowly lean back so you're almost upside down with your arms stretched behind you (all the way to the floor) to support your weight and maintain your balance. Thrust back and forth against him, opening and closing your legs.

Happy Humping!!

Wet & Wild Wednesday

2011-11-30T09:33:00.001-06:00

It's Wet and Wild Wednesday!! I have a HOT new product....

The Vibrating G-String from Blush Novelties is worn like an undergarment. The Vibrating G-String is discreet and washable and vibrates on and around the clitoral area. It is worn like an undergarment. The on/off button is located in the rear and is easily accesible and controlled by the user and powered by four LR44 'watch' batteries which are included.

This product is sure to get you (or your mate) WET and WILD!!

How Long Can You Perform...

2011-11-30T08:53:00.001-06:00

Oral? I was asked this question yesterday and my answer got a shocking response of "Come on. Really? That's too long".

Question: How long can/do you give head?

The answer to this question will vary from person to person. There are many factors that go into how long you can/ should give head....

Are you REALLY into oral? I am a very "oral" person if you know what I mean. I LOVE giving it and it turns me on more to know that I am pleasing my man. You have to be into whatever you are doing, whether it's cleaning your home or shaft sucking, and you'll last longer.
Is it the MAIN COURSE or and APPETIZER? Are you ONLY performing fellatio or are you getting him ready for the dive into the unknown? Of course, you will go for shorter periods if you will be having intercourse, but what do you do if it is the main course? Read the next bullet....
Are you switching it up? If you are only performing oral (like around that time of the month), try using your hands in addition to your mouth. And don't forget to take care of his two little friends (balls, for the slow people). Stopping in the middle of performing and giving him a good handjob for a few and getting back to sucking is another way to switch it up to make your jaws last longer.
Do you know what you are doing? Can you deepthroat or do you just suck the head? You have to perfect your craft...But if you are REALLY into what you are doing, you will know how to make it last...

My answer was about an hour...I explained that, in all, I may give head between 30 minutes to an hour. Ongoing head is a different story. If you know what you are doing, he should last [maybe] 15-20 minutes (if he's not a quick spitter, LOL).

Happy Sucking ;-)

Position of the day: Arc de Triomph

2011-11-30T08:38:00.001-06:00

Position of the Day

Today's position is the Arc de Triomph. This position is a bit advanced. Only perform this one if you are flexible enough though because you can injure yourself.

How to do it

Have your man sit on the bed with his legs extended in front of him. Crawl up to him on your knees and straddle him, lowering yourself onto his erect penis. Once you’re comfortable, arch into a back bend — but be careful not to strain your lower back. Rest your head between his legs on the bed and reach your hands back to grab hold of his ankles or feet. That’s when he leans forward and the fun begins.

For those who are limber enough to last for even a few moments, the payoff is incredible. Throw your head back, close your eyes, and totally let go, because this position will connect you two like no other. Use his legs to brace yourself and add more oomph when you thrust. After this, your man will bend over backward for another all-out sexy panorama of your naked body in his hands.

Happy Humping!!

Position of the Day: Vixen

2011-11-29T09:47:00.001-06:00

Position of the Day

V is for Vixen

The position of the day is the V is for Vixen. Most men are so inflexible, they think a knee bend is an Olympic feat, so he’ll worship you as a sex goddess.

How To Do It

Sit on a counter and have your man stand facing you. His legs should be slightly bent, spaced 3 feet apart. With your arms on his shoulders and his arms around your lower back, slowly pull your right leg up and prop your right foot on his left shoulder. Then pull your left leg up and prop your left foot on his right shoulder.

Happy Humping!!

Position of the Day: Super Woman

2011-11-28T08:42:00.001-06:00

Position of the Day

Super Woman

Not just anyone can merit the title, Super-Woman (or ‘Super-Man’ for those of other sexual orientations). But if they can assume this position, they have certainly got a shot. A thrilling member of the rear entry family of positions, this one will really keep you sex-plorers hanging!

Lovers can prepare for this 'flight' by assuming either the Standing Doggy Style or the Ben Dover position with the receiver’s back to the giver’s front, with the receiver’s hands placed on a sturdy flat surface in front. The giver grasps the other by the thighs to lift them over a couch or bed so they can reach below for support.

As our heroine is suspended in the air, it is critical to avoid over-extending the back; this outcome can be avoided by having the giving partner hold them securely by the hips, hands as close to the waist as possible. If the receiver keeps their abdominal muscles engaged, you're truly ready to have some fun.

This is also a good position to try in the pool...

Let me know what you think about this position below...

Position of the Day: Reverse Cowgirl

2011-11-24T09:23:00.001-06:00

Position of the Day

Reverse Cowgirl

The position of the day is an oldie but goodie: the reverse cowgirl. I like it because it allows for g-spot stimulation. He likes it because he can get a visual (men love ass)and it'll make him last longer. If you want to cause increased sensations, place each foot flat on the floor (or bed) beside his hips. If you have never tried reverse cowgirl, today is a good day..

Position of the Day: Valedictorian

2011-11-23T15:52:00.001-06:00

Position of the Day

Valedictorian

I picked Valedictorian for the position of the day because I really enjoy allowing the man to take control. Your g-spot is also more accessible which makes it easier to have those infamous orgasms.

The picture is pretty self-explanatory. Try it tonight and let me know what you think below!

Oral Sex: Fellatio

2011-11-22T09:40:00.001-06:00

Fellatio, blow-job, giving head....No matter what you call it, most men love it...Yesterday, we discussed cunnilingus and I think it's only fair that fellatio become the topic for today.

Men aren't the only ones that like getting head, a lot of women like GIVING it. I have come (cum) before from just giving head. Thinking back on my first time (giving head), I laugh because I did not know wtf I was doing. I couldn't deep-throat, didn't know how to coordinate my hands with the rapid up and down motion of my mouth....it was just horrible! But practice made me better and now I consider myself decent. Here are a few of my tips that I give out at my classes (and parties).

Get down and nasty...Most men LOVE sloppy head! Allow the saliva to collect in your mouth as you play the flute. This was the hardest thing for me to get over...being nice and neat. Men love it when a woman (or man, I'm not here to judge) isn't afraid to get down and dirty to please them.
Use your hands....sometimes. Personally, I like to do it with no hands, but some [men] prefer the use of hands in addition lips and tongue. Place one hand around the shaft while you move up and down on the head of his penis. Try to coordinate your movements so your hand and mouth are going up and down in unison.
Talk...to your partner and let them know what you are comfortable doing. Also let them know what you are capable of doing. This is the time to discuss swallowing, tea-bagging, the ability to deep-throat, etc.
Know the dick...How are you going to please someone and you don't know your anatomy? Every penis is different, and each has its sensitive spots and its preferred ways of being handled. Generally, the corona and frenulum are more sensitive than the base of the shaft of the penis. Listen to your lover. The sounds he makes and the feel of his body tensing are your best clues that you're going this right. Don't be afraid to ask him for specific spots to lick, kiss, or suck -- each man has his own preferences.
Swallow....or not. For many men, this is important to them -- they like to feel that by swallowing their semen, you complete this act of lovemaking and accept a part of themselves into your body. But many people don't like the taste of semen and can't bring themselves. Talk about this beforehand -- let him know if you can't handle it, and that it's not personal.

There is only one way to give head, with enthusiasm and confidence. If you don't like and enjoy what you are doing, it will only end up being a bad experience for both parties involved.

Hope you enjoyed the tips....Do you have any tips to add?

Position Of The Day: Stand & Deliver

2011-11-22T09:16:00.001-06:00

The position of the day is one of my personal favorites: the stand and deliver. I like it because he hits my g-spot just right. Men like it because they can control, well, everything. Check it out below....

Position of the Day

Stand & Deliver

How

With both of you standing, you bend over at the waist; he enters you from behind.

Benefit

Bending over helps make the vaginal walls tighter and increases the intensity of the friction.

Bonus

Have him tickle your clitoris with his free hand, or loosely tie your hands together with a silky scarf.

Do you like this position? Let me know below....

Position of the Day: Monday the 21st

2011-11-21T17:00:00.001-06:00

Sooooo, I decided to post a position of the day so that we can all add a little spice and knowledge to your bedroom. Sooooo without further ado....

POSITION OF THE DAY

G-WHIZ

How.....You lie back with your legs resting on each of his shoulders.

Benefit.....When you raise your legs, it narrows the vagina and helps target your G-spot.

Bonus.....Ask him to start rocking you in a side-to-side or up-and-down motion. That should bring his penis into direct contact with your G-spot.

What do you think? Try it and let me know...

Oral Sex: Cunnilingus

2011-11-21T10:43:00.001-06:00

Happy Monday!! I've been going back and forth with myself on what I should write about today. The winning topic is Cunnilingus: the act of oral sex being performed on a woman. Most women LOVE head but MOST men aren't good at it, which is very depressing.

Anyways, here are some pointers about giving...and receiving cunnilingus...

Don't just focus only on the clitoris...The clitoris has millions of nerve endings making it easier for women to get pleasure from stimulating this area, but there are other parts of the pussy that women like to have stimulated. The labia and vaginal opening should be stimulated also. Pleasing the pussy (as a whole unit) and not singling out one single part will make the oral sex MINDBLOWING....
Change your pace frequently...Doing anything over and over is boring...spice it up a bit with a change of pace. Lick slowly and suck gently and slowly gain momentum. Going in fast and rough will assure that you will NEVER (and I mean NEVER) get to taste her again. Bottom Line: Keep her guessing!
Be a "fingerer"....You don't have to only use your mouth to please her...you can use your hands (or toys) also. When you have her panting, insert your finger into her pussy and curve your finger as if you were telling her to 'come here' to stroke her g-spot. Meanwhile, keep massaging her with your tongue...She will explode in no time. She may even squirt!
Try different positions...No one wants to enjoy oral sex lying on their back. Try different positions when eating her out. Doggy-style, letting her ride your face, and standing are positions that will add excitement and spontaneity to your oral experience.
Learn your ANATOMY...How do you plan to bring a woman an orgasm and you don't even know what you are doing? Learn the different parts of the pussy an how to please each part. This is ESSENTIAL!!
Relax...This goes for both the receivers and givers. Receivers, lie back and enjoy yourself, and givers, relax and focus on the task at hand...

Now it's time to EAT!! Do some good today.....BON APPETIT!!

Of course, this is not a guide; these are only suggestions. Do you have any to add? Leave your suggestions below...

Is Three People A Crowd or A Party?!?!

2011-11-16T18:08:00.001-06:00

Threesomes!! What do you think of when you hear the word? There are many types of threesomes a person can participate in but most people think about two women involved in a sexual experience with a man. While this can bring excitement into the bedroom, there must be rules established....

Establish the Rules....People have their own rules and limits and all of those limits need to be understood by all parties involved. A woman may not feel comfortable performing oral on another woman, your mate may not want you to penetrate another woman, etc. so make these things known before you engage in ANY sexual behaviors...
Don't get SLOPPY.....drunk that is. I've seen people try and get drunk (or high) so that they can work up the courage to "do it"....This is not a good thing. You want to be at your best when performing so have a few drinks to loosen up but don't go overboard.
Protect Yourself....This is really self- explanatory but I have to keep saying it because people still seem to think they are invincible...It is 2011, there are diseases that you can get and not get rid of and because you never know who someone has slept with, you need to WRAP IT UP or insist that he WRAPS IT UP.
Take Care Of Yourself....When you are sleeping with one person, both of you are concentrating on each other, but when you add another person to the mix, it may make it awkward to concentrate on two people at the same time. Soooo, while the two women are paying attention to each other, take care of yourself so that you can stay turned on. The same thing goes for a woman when the male is performing with the other partner.
Don't Get Jealous....This kinda goes with the previous rule. It is easy to get jealous of the person receiving the attention, but don't. The attention usually rotates so just be patient....You'll get your chance.
Be A Giver....Focus on pleasing both women and usually they focus more on pleasing you. Lick nipples, penetrate one partner (if they are comfortable with that), finger them, or whatever you can do to stay involved.
Don't Confuse the Threesome with a RELATIONSHIP....A threesome is just that....a threesome. You should not expect it to be an ongoing thing. This means that there should probably be no cuddling afterwards and the third person should not sleep over. Reassure your mate that you are committed to only them and you may end up having more threesomes in the future.

These are rules that I have found to be helpful in having a threesome. I wish I had these rules before I had mine...

Do you have any rules to add? Let me know...

Wet & Wild Wednesday

2011-11-16T13:17:00.001-06:00

It's Hump Day!!!! You know what that means...It's time for another Wet & Wild Wednesday!!

Here we go...…

The W&W Wednesday product for this week is the DOOR SWING! Turn any door into a love swing in just minutes! Enjoy positions you never thought were possible and explore your fetish fantasies! Using the door swing is easy, just drape the acrylic tubes over the top of the open door. Close and lock the door. Lower leg straps so that your lover can slide their thighs through the lower loops and then allow your lover to slide their arms through the upper loops, and have them hold onto the handles for extra safety. Adjust the straps to a comfortable height and have fun! NOTE: Maximum weight capacity = 300 lbs.

Feel free to let me know what you think below!!

Sexual Taboos: Anal Sex

2011-11-11T19:19:00.001-06:00

Regular sex is a taboo topic (which I think is absurd because it is 2011) and anal is STRICTLY FORBIDDEN. Anal sex is like this....everyone is curious about it or already doing it but no one wants to talk about it.

WHY??

Why do people want to try anal? For women, there is a spongy area in your rectum that, when it is hit directly, gives women what is equivalent to a g-spot orgasm. It stimulates men's prostates and gives them pleasure also. The feelings of euphoria you get afterwards is addictive and makes you keep wanting more and more. There is also a natural curiosity about the body that makes men and women want to explore it.

Experts estimate that one in four couples have had anal sex. Now if you think about it, that is a lot of couples. I believe the main reason most people don't want to talk about it is because they had a bad first experience. Lack of lubrication, lack of relaxation, or lack of communication are most of the common reasons people have a bad first time, and hence, never try it again. So anyways, here are some pointers for having a great first time or even enhance you ANAL experience.

Relax....How are you going to enjoy anything if you're tense and uptight? The more relaxed you are, the more fun you are going to have and the experience will be more that much more enjoyable.
Make sure he's LUBED up....The anus is not like the vagina when it comes to lubrication; meaning it does not create its own juices (lubrication). This just means that you will have to use some. My first time trying anal was without any lube and the guy was a mandingo (ladies, you have to know your limit, but more on that in a minute). Needless to say, it was not a pleasant experience. As a matter of fact, he didn't even get the head all the way inside. LOL!!!! But it taught me a valuable lesson, always use lube back there.
Use protection...I wanted to go ahead a throw this one in there....Hell, it is 2011 and there are more diseases than the public knows about so please protect yourself. Another reason is because you can get tiny tears back there (reasons being, not enough lube, too rough, lack of communication, etc) because it is so sensitive and condoms will keep you from transferring bacteria into these tiny tears.
Keep an open line of communication....Okay, so if you are practicing anal with someone, you should be able to communicate with them. Communication is the only way he will know how you are feeling, so now is not the time to shut down.
Know your limit....Like I was telling y'all earlier, my first anal experience was with someone with the length of a ruler and the girth of a biscuit can. It was not pretty, fun, exciting, or any happy adjectives....THAT SHIT HURT. And to top it off, it was without lube. I cut that anal experience short. I never should have tried a dick first; I should have used a toy (but I was 17 and didn't know WTF I was doing). If you want to try it, consider using a toy first, like anal beads or an anal vibrator.

Do you have any tips? Let me know what y'all think...