Happy Fantastic Friday!!
I want to talk about something that many people know nothing about (but think they do).....INTIMACY. I see people everyday just going through life using their bodies for sex and never REALLY connect with people. Then they get old, bitter, and never understand why they never experienced a lasting, fulfilling relationship.
I want to talk about something that many people know nothing about (but think they do).....INTIMACY. I see people everyday just going through life using their bodies for sex and never REALLY connect with people. Then they get old, bitter, and never understand why they never experienced a lasting, fulfilling relationship.
First, intimacy has nothing to do with SEX. That is a common misconception. There are many reasons a person cannot become intimate with their mate. The first is the issue of incompatibility. There are millions of couples who are incompatible, trying to make it work and are beating a dead horse. Let that person go and allow yourself to open up enough to allow YOUR perfect mate to come into your life. This will allow you to open up and be intimate.
Another reason one cannot become intimate is because of past issues. Everyone has been through problems but you cannot allow your past issues and actions to destroy your present relationship. The past has to be dealt with before you can move into a new HEALTHY relationship....
How can intimacy problems develop from a couple living together?! By its very nature, common law arrangements miss the single most important ingredient to intimacy: commitment. When you don’t really understand how intimacy is developed, it’s very natural to want to pursue its benefits, and all the while undermine the very thing you’re trying to get! Romantic and sexual intimacy don’t come cheap. They will cost you dearly: giving your spouse unconditional love and sacrificial commitment in marriage. But the return on your investment will be absolutely amazing!
These are just a few of the many reasons why many couples never experience the intimacy REAL relationships have. Like I have always believed...Get yourself straight and your world will follow.
Happy Humping!!
How can intimacy problems develop from a couple living together?! By its very nature, common law arrangements miss the single most important ingredient to intimacy: commitment. When you don’t really understand how intimacy is developed, it’s very natural to want to pursue its benefits, and all the while undermine the very thing you’re trying to get! Romantic and sexual intimacy don’t come cheap. They will cost you dearly: giving your spouse unconditional love and sacrificial commitment in marriage. But the return on your investment will be absolutely amazing!
These are just a few of the many reasons why many couples never experience the intimacy REAL relationships have. Like I have always believed...Get yourself straight and your world will follow.
Happy Humping!!
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