Position of the Day: Head Game

Position of the Day

Head Game

Getting into this position, you may feel like you're headed nowhere — but it's totally worth it once you experience the results. The blood rush from your thighs will intensify the sensations in the pelvic region. Plus, your legs are squeezed together over his shoulders, which guarantees a snug, scintillating fit for him.

How to do it

Start this inverted delight by lying flat on the ground face up. With your hands supporting your lower back, lift your legs and backside way, way up so they're as perpendicular to the ground as you can get them. Have your man kneel before you, grab your ankles, and bring his knees to your shoulders. Then take his hands and ask him to hold your hips — that will steady you both. Hold his thighs for leverage and adjust so your genitals can join for some otherworldly upside-down action.

Happy Humping!!



Oral Sex: Fellatio

Fellatio, blow-job, giving head....No matter what you call it, most men love it...Yesterday, we discussed cunnilingus and I think it's only fair that fellatio become the topic for today.

Men aren't the only ones that like getting head, a lot of women like GIVING it.  I have come (cum) before from just giving head.  Thinking back on my first time (giving head), I laugh because I did not know wtf I was doing.  I couldn't deep-throat, didn't know how to coordinate my hands with the rapid up and down motion of my mouth....it was just horrible!  But practice made me better and now I consider myself decent.  Here are a few of my tips that I give out at my classes (and parties).

1. Get down and nasty...Most men LOVE sloppy head!  Allow the saliva to collect in your mouth as you play the flute.  This was the hardest thing for me to get over...being nice and neat.  Men love it when a woman (or man, I'm not here to judge) isn't afraid to get down and dirty to please them.
2. Use your hands....sometimes.  Personally, I like to do it with no hands, but some [men] prefer the use of hands in addition lips and tongue.  Place one hand around the shaft while you move up and down on the head of his penis.  Try to coordinate your movements so your hand and mouth are going up and down in unison.
3. Talk...to your partner and let them know what you are comfortable doing.  Also let them know what you are capable of doing.  This is the time to discuss swallowing, tea-bagging, the ability to deep-throat, etc.  
4. Know the dick...How are you going to please someone and you don't know your anatomy?  Every penis is different, and each has its sensitive spots and its preferred ways of being handled. Generally, the corona and frenulum are more sensitive than the base of the shaft of the penis. Listen to your lover. The sounds he makes and the feel of his body tensing are your best clues that you're going this right. Don't be afraid to ask him for specific spots to lick, kiss, or suck -- each man has his own preferences.    
5. Swallow....or not.  For many men, this is important to them -- they like to feel that by swallowing their semen, you complete this act of lovemaking and accept a part of themselves into your body. But many people don't like the taste of semen and can't bring themselves. Talk about this beforehand -- let him know if you can't handle it, and that it's not personal.

There is only one way to give head, with enthusiasm and confidence.  If you don't like and enjoy what you are doing, it will only end up being a bad experience for both parties involved.  

Hope you enjoyed the tips....Do you have any tips to add?  

Oral Sex: Cunnilingus

Happy Monday!!  I've been going back and forth with myself on what I should write about today.  The winning topic is Cunnilingus:  the act of oral sex being performed on a woman.  Most women LOVE head but MOST men aren't good at it, which is very depressing.

Anyways, here are some pointers about giving...and receiving cunnilingus...

1. Don't just focus only on the clitoris...The clitoris has millions of nerve endings making it easier for women to get pleasure from stimulating this area, but there are other parts of the pussy that women like to have stimulated.  The labia and vaginal opening should be stimulated also.  Pleasing the pussy (as a whole unit) and not singling out one single part will make the oral sex MINDBLOWING....
2. Change your pace frequently...Doing anything over and over is boring...spice it up a bit with a change of pace.  Lick slowly and suck gently and slowly gain momentum.  Going in fast and rough will assure that you will NEVER (and I mean NEVER) get to taste her again.  Bottom Line:  Keep her guessing!
3. Be a "fingerer"....You don't have to only use your mouth to please her...you can use your hands (or toys) also.  When you have her panting, insert your finger into her pussy and curve your finger as if you were telling her to 'come here' to stroke her g-spot.  Meanwhile, keep massaging her with your tongue...She will explode in no time.  She may even squirt!
4. Try different positions...No one wants to enjoy oral sex lying on their back.  Try different positions when eating her out.  Doggy-style, letting her ride your face, and standing are positions that will add excitement and spontaneity to your oral experience.
5. Learn your ANATOMY...How do you plan to bring a woman an orgasm and you don't even know what you are doing?  Learn the different parts of the pussy an how to please each part.  This is ESSENTIAL!!
6. Relax...This goes for both the receivers and givers.  Receivers, lie back and enjoy yourself, and givers, relax and focus on the task at hand...

Now it's time to EAT!!  Do some good today.....BON APPETIT!!

Of course, this is not a guide; these are only suggestions.  Do you have any to add?  Leave your suggestions below...