Wet & Wild Wednesday

Well, it's that time of the week again....Wet & Wild Wednesday!!  Since it's almost Christmas time, let's see what we can find in my little trunk....

Rene Rofe Suspender Bodystocking

This is the Rene Rofe Suspender Bodystocking...It is sure to get your bedroom wet and wild anytime.  This crotchless bosystocking comes in pink or black and leaves nothing to the imagination....sure to add some playfulness into your bedroom encouters. 

If you are interested in ordering, email nicenaughtyblog@gmail.com.

Happy Humping!!

Super Sunday!!!!

Wassup? It's Super Sunday again....The position for this week will be

(drumroll please)

You have to hand over the reins to him, but it’s worth it. For those who know the power of the G-spot, the deep, intense penetration will send you spinning. And there’s no reason he can’t be doing double duty. The G-Force is the perfect position for him to be inside you while using his hand to stimulate your clitoris. If you can surrender your on-top status, this is one position where the Force will be with you.

How to do it

Lie down on your back and pull your knees close to your chest. Ask your guy to kneel in front of you, grabbing hold of your feet with his hands. Have him penetrate you, thrusting forward from his hips. Looking to add even more God-that’s-good action? Put your feet on his chest and have him hold on to your hips — it’ll give him extra control and let him plunge even farther.

Happy Humping!!


Position of the Day: The Congress of the Crow

Position of the Day

The Congress of the Crow

This oral position is basically the same as the '69', in that it allows both of you to pleasure each other at the same time. Each of you lies in a semi-foetal positon with your head by the other's privates, giving easy access to do what you like with them.

One tip - don't concentrate too hard or you might forget to enjoy yourself!

Happy Humping!!



Position of the Day: Indrani

Position of the Day

Indrani

The Kamasutra position "Indrani" is an oldie but goodie for us all.  Indrani makes it easier to accomodate men with larger packages and stimulate the illusive g-spot.

How to do it

Lie on your back with your knees bent up to your chest. Your man then kneels behind you and enters you. You can pull him towards you by clasping your hands behind his bum and rest your legs by his armpits or push your feet against his chest.

Happy Humping!!

Super Sunday!!

Super Sunday!!

Soooo....It's Sunday!  Here is a position for all of you that like a challenge.  Here's the Lotus...

Great for yoga lovers, this position might challenge you a little bit but is definitely worth a go. You lie on your back and cross your legs and bring them as much towards your chest as possible. He then thrusts in and out of you - all you've got to do is hold the pose!  Guaranteed to have a g-spot orgasm!!

Happy Humping!!

Social Taboos: Open Relationships

Ashton and Demi? Will and Jada? Are they on to something or are they prime examples of the how you can have it all and still not be satisfied? Unless you have been under a rock, you know about the demise of Demi and Ashton's marriage and their "alleged" open relationship. And we have all heard the rumors about Will and Jada being swingers. Now that this has reached mainstream media, is there really something to having an open relationship or is it just another fad?

Just to be clear, I have never thought that monogamy was natural. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE monogamy (hell, it's 2011; it's too dangerous to just be sleeping with different people) and I believe it can be taught. But on the other hand, can you really live life and nurture the connections that you have with persons [of the same or opposite sex] by living a monogamous lifestyle?

Connections
One cannot stop forming connections with people.  You meet people everyday.  You are bound to be attracted to someone else, and quite possibly, want to see where that connection will lead.  But you have a wife or significant other.  So what do you do?  You contemplate an affair or you totally cut the connection off, severing the relationship.  What if you could really go to your mate and be real about the feelings you have for this person and they genuinely understand and tell you to go for it?  Could you handle that?  Would you even want a relationship like that?  What if the shoe was on the other foot? 

I believe that open relationships can be a good thing for certain relationships.  But there are a few things that need to be understood.

1. It isn't all about sex... Yes, sex is one part of a relationship but it is not the only thing.  Your mate may like her (or him) just as a hanging out buddy or just for convo.  Open up and really LISTEN to what your mate is telling you about this person.
2. Be HONEST about everything... In order for an open relationship to work, you must be completely honest about everything, including your feelings about other people.  Talk to your mate openly and honestly and be open to their feedback.  Both of you have to be on the same page.
3. Make sure that your #1 (husband or boyfriend) knows that they are your #1... Your mate has to feel special and know that you respect and care for them deeply and that they come first.  They should never have to worry about someone else coming before them.
4. Make sure your boyfriends (or girlfriends) know your mate comes first... Your mate has to also know that you have a person that comes first in your life but you want to nurture the connection you have with them.
5. No SECRETS... This is where open relationships go wrong.  There should be no secrets.  Your mate and (girlfriends or boyfriends) should all know each other.  They should all know their place and respect it.  If they cannot respect their place, they should not be involved in your open relationship.

Open relationships are not a new thing but more and more people are trying it.  Keep it simple, open, and honest and you should be successful.

Happy Humping!!

Position of the Day: The Pair of Tongs

Position of the Day

Pair of Tongs

The Pair of Tongs is not for the weak or faint of hearts.  You (and him) must have considerable arm strength but once the blood gets pumping, you will have an explosive orgasm!!!

How to do it



You lie off the edge of the bed on your side, just with your calves, ankles and feet still on the mattress. You support yourself with your left arm and he holds you up from your waist.
He steps over your left leg and holding your other leg up and enters you while you dangle precariously off the bed! It sounds confusing but will all come together when you get going.

Happy Humping!!



Position of the Day: The Wheelbarrow

Position of the Day

The Wheelbarrow

The position of the day is a play on my fave position, doggystyle.  I love this position because it puts the guy in control and I LOVE male domination in the bedroom.  It also gives me a great upper body workout. 

How to do it

Get on your hands and feet and have him pick you up by the pelvis.  Once he slides his penis inside, grip his waist with your thighs.  He then thrusts back and forth, controlling the rhythm and speed.  If your arms get tired, try resting on a table or the side of the bed.

Happy Humping!!

Position of the Day: Head Game

Position of the Day

Head Game

Getting into this position, you may feel like you're headed nowhere — but it's totally worth it once you experience the results. The blood rush from your thighs will intensify the sensations in the pelvic region. Plus, your legs are squeezed together over his shoulders, which guarantees a snug, scintillating fit for him.

How to do it

Start this inverted delight by lying flat on the ground face up. With your hands supporting your lower back, lift your legs and backside way, way up so they're as perpendicular to the ground as you can get them. Have your man kneel before you, grab your ankles, and bring his knees to your shoulders. Then take his hands and ask him to hold your hips — that will steady you both. Hold his thighs for leverage and adjust so your genitals can join for some otherworldly upside-down action.

Happy Humping!!



Position of the Day: Bootyful View

Position of the Day

Bootyful View

This position allows for great control over speed, depth, and intensity of stimulation. Since you’re facing away, you can feel totally uninhibited, and your partner can enjoy the thrill of the ride.

How to do it

Have your man sit up on the bed so that his legs are extended horizontally toward the foot of the bed. Turn around and straddle him — with your back toward him — and then lower yourself onto his erect penis. Extend your legs back so they are almost behind him, relaxing your torso onto the bed between his feet. Slide up and down and use his feet for leverage.

Happy Humping!!

Position of the Day: The Couch Canoodle

Position of the Day

The Couch Canoodle

This passion pose supplies the kind of naughty sex scene that all men yearn for. It gives him a full-frontal view of you in action, one that'll undoubtedly fuel his dirtiest fantasies for a long, long time. Plus, because you're the one who sets the speed and timing, you can treat yourself to the exact motions that make you moan with desire and take you over the edge of ecstasy.

How To Do It

Have your partner sit back on a couch (or a comfy chair). Straddle his lap with your legs splayed apart and your knees bent up against his chest. Slowly lean back so you're almost upside down with your arms stretched behind you (all the way to the floor) to support your weight and maintain your balance. Thrust back and forth against him, opening and closing your legs.

Happy Humping!!



How Long Can You Perform...

Oral? I was asked this question yesterday and my answer got a shocking response of "Come on. Really? That's too long".

Question: How long can/do you give head?

The answer to this question will vary from person to person. There are many factors that go into how long you can/ should give head....

• Are you REALLY into oral? I am a very "oral" person if you know what I mean. I LOVE giving it and it turns me on more to know that I am pleasing my man. You have to be into whatever you are doing, whether it's cleaning your home or shaft sucking, and you'll last longer.
• Is it the MAIN COURSE or and APPETIZER? Are you ONLY performing fellatio or are you getting him ready for the dive into the unknown? Of course, you will go for shorter periods if you will be having intercourse, but what do you do if it is the main course? Read the next bullet....
• Are you switching it up? If you are only performing oral (like around that time of the month), try using your hands in addition to your mouth. And don't forget to take care of his two little friends (balls, for the slow people). Stopping in the middle of performing and giving him a good handjob for a few and getting back to sucking is another way to switch it up to make your jaws last longer.
• Do you know what you are doing? Can you deepthroat or do you just suck the head? You have to perfect your craft...But if you are REALLY into what you are doing, you will know how to make it last...

My answer was about an hour...I explained that, in all, I may give head between 30 minutes to an hour. Ongoing head is a different story. If you know what you are doing, he should last [maybe] 15-20 minutes (if he's not a quick spitter, LOL).

Happy Sucking ;-)

Position of the day: Arc de Triomph

Position of the Day

Today's position is the Arc de Triomph.  This position is a bit advanced.  Only perform this one if you are flexible enough though because you can injure yourself. 

How to do it

Have your man sit on the bed with his legs extended in front of him. Crawl up to him on your knees and straddle him, lowering yourself onto his erect penis. Once you’re comfortable, arch into a back bend — but be careful not to strain your lower back. Rest your head between his legs on the bed and reach your hands back to grab hold of his ankles or feet. That’s when he leans forward and the fun begins.

For those who are limber enough to last for even a few moments, the payoff is incredible. Throw your head back, close your eyes, and totally let go, because this position will connect you two like no other. Use his legs to brace yourself and add more oomph when you thrust. After this, your man will bend over backward for another all-out sexy panorama of your naked body in his hands.

Happy Humping!!

Position of the Day: Vixen

Position of the Day

V is for Vixen

 

The position of the day is the V is for Vixen.  Most men are so inflexible, they think a knee bend is an Olympic feat, so he’ll worship you as a sex goddess.



How To Do It



Sit on a counter and have your man stand facing you. His legs should be slightly bent, spaced 3 feet apart. With your arms on his shoulders and his arms around your lower back, slowly pull your right leg up and prop your right foot on his left shoulder. Then pull your left leg up and prop your left foot on his right shoulder.

Happy Humping!!

 

Position of the Day: Reverse Cowgirl

Position of the Day

Reverse Cowgirl

 

The position of the day is an oldie but goodie:  the reverse cowgirl.  I like it because it allows for g-spot stimulation. He likes it because he can get a visual (men love ass)and it'll make him last longer.  If you want to cause increased sensations, place each foot flat on the floor (or bed) beside his hips.  If you have never tried reverse cowgirl, today is a good day..



 

Oral Sex: Fellatio

Fellatio, blow-job, giving head....No matter what you call it, most men love it...Yesterday, we discussed cunnilingus and I think it's only fair that fellatio become the topic for today.

Men aren't the only ones that like getting head, a lot of women like GIVING it.  I have come (cum) before from just giving head.  Thinking back on my first time (giving head), I laugh because I did not know wtf I was doing.  I couldn't deep-throat, didn't know how to coordinate my hands with the rapid up and down motion of my mouth....it was just horrible!  But practice made me better and now I consider myself decent.  Here are a few of my tips that I give out at my classes (and parties).

1. Get down and nasty...Most men LOVE sloppy head!  Allow the saliva to collect in your mouth as you play the flute.  This was the hardest thing for me to get over...being nice and neat.  Men love it when a woman (or man, I'm not here to judge) isn't afraid to get down and dirty to please them.
2. Use your hands....sometimes.  Personally, I like to do it with no hands, but some [men] prefer the use of hands in addition lips and tongue.  Place one hand around the shaft while you move up and down on the head of his penis.  Try to coordinate your movements so your hand and mouth are going up and down in unison.
3. Talk...to your partner and let them know what you are comfortable doing.  Also let them know what you are capable of doing.  This is the time to discuss swallowing, tea-bagging, the ability to deep-throat, etc.  
4. Know the dick...How are you going to please someone and you don't know your anatomy?  Every penis is different, and each has its sensitive spots and its preferred ways of being handled. Generally, the corona and frenulum are more sensitive than the base of the shaft of the penis. Listen to your lover. The sounds he makes and the feel of his body tensing are your best clues that you're going this right. Don't be afraid to ask him for specific spots to lick, kiss, or suck -- each man has his own preferences.    
5. Swallow....or not.  For many men, this is important to them -- they like to feel that by swallowing their semen, you complete this act of lovemaking and accept a part of themselves into your body. But many people don't like the taste of semen and can't bring themselves. Talk about this beforehand -- let him know if you can't handle it, and that it's not personal.

There is only one way to give head, with enthusiasm and confidence.  If you don't like and enjoy what you are doing, it will only end up being a bad experience for both parties involved.  

Hope you enjoyed the tips....Do you have any tips to add?  

Position Of The Day: Stand & Deliver

The position of the day is one of my personal favorites:  the stand and deliver.  I like it because he hits my g-spot just right.  Men like it because they can control, well, everything.  Check it out below....

Position of the Day

Stand & Deliver

How

With both of you standing, you bend over at the waist; he enters you from behind.

Benefit

Bending over helps make the vaginal walls tighter and increases the intensity of the friction.

Bonus

Have him tickle your clitoris with his free hand, or loosely tie your hands together with a silky scarf.

Do you like this position?  Let me know below....

Position of the Day: Monday the 21st

Sooooo, I decided to post a position of the day so that we can all add a little spice and knowledge to your bedroom.  Sooooo without further ado....

POSITION OF THE DAY

G-WHIZ

How.....You lie back with your legs resting on each of his shoulders.

Benefit.....When you raise your legs, it narrows the vagina and helps target your G-spot.

Bonus.....Ask him to start rocking you in a side-to-side or up-and-down motion. That should bring his penis into direct contact with your G-spot.

What do you think?  Try it and let me know...

Oral Sex: Cunnilingus

Happy Monday!!  I've been going back and forth with myself on what I should write about today.  The winning topic is Cunnilingus:  the act of oral sex being performed on a woman.  Most women LOVE head but MOST men aren't good at it, which is very depressing.

Anyways, here are some pointers about giving...and receiving cunnilingus...

1. Don't just focus only on the clitoris...The clitoris has millions of nerve endings making it easier for women to get pleasure from stimulating this area, but there are other parts of the pussy that women like to have stimulated.  The labia and vaginal opening should be stimulated also.  Pleasing the pussy (as a whole unit) and not singling out one single part will make the oral sex MINDBLOWING....
2. Change your pace frequently...Doing anything over and over is boring...spice it up a bit with a change of pace.  Lick slowly and suck gently and slowly gain momentum.  Going in fast and rough will assure that you will NEVER (and I mean NEVER) get to taste her again.  Bottom Line:  Keep her guessing!
3. Be a "fingerer"....You don't have to only use your mouth to please her...you can use your hands (or toys) also.  When you have her panting, insert your finger into her pussy and curve your finger as if you were telling her to 'come here' to stroke her g-spot.  Meanwhile, keep massaging her with your tongue...She will explode in no time.  She may even squirt!
4. Try different positions...No one wants to enjoy oral sex lying on their back.  Try different positions when eating her out.  Doggy-style, letting her ride your face, and standing are positions that will add excitement and spontaneity to your oral experience.
5. Learn your ANATOMY...How do you plan to bring a woman an orgasm and you don't even know what you are doing?  Learn the different parts of the pussy an how to please each part.  This is ESSENTIAL!!
6. Relax...This goes for both the receivers and givers.  Receivers, lie back and enjoy yourself, and givers, relax and focus on the task at hand...

Now it's time to EAT!!  Do some good today.....BON APPETIT!!

Of course, this is not a guide; these are only suggestions.  Do you have any to add?  Leave your suggestions below...

Is Three People A Crowd or A Party?!?!

Threesomes!!  What do you think of when you hear the word?  There are many types of threesomes a person can participate in but most people think about two women involved in a sexual experience with a man.  While this can bring excitement into the bedroom, there must be rules established....

1. Establish the Rules....People have their own rules and limits and all of those limits need to be understood by all parties involved.  A woman may not feel comfortable performing oral on another woman, your mate may not want you to penetrate another woman, etc. so make these things known before you engage in ANY sexual behaviors...
2. Don't get SLOPPY.....drunk that is.  I've seen people try and get drunk (or high) so that they can work up the courage to "do it"....This is not a good thing.  You want to be at your best when performing so have a few drinks to loosen up but don't go overboard.
3. Protect Yourself....This is really self- explanatory but I have to keep saying it because people still seem to think they are invincible...It is 2011, there are diseases that you can get and not get rid of and because you never know who someone has slept with, you need to WRAP IT UP or insist that he WRAPS IT UP.
4. Take Care Of Yourself....When you are sleeping with one person, both of you are concentrating on each other, but when you add another person to the mix, it may make it awkward to concentrate on two people at the same time.  Soooo, while the two women are paying attention to each other, take care of yourself so that you can stay turned on.  The same thing goes for a woman when the male is performing with the other partner. 
5. Don't Get Jealous....This kinda goes with the previous rule.  It is easy to get jealous of the person receiving the attention, but don't.  The attention usually rotates so just be patient....You'll get your chance.
6. Be A Giver....Focus on pleasing both women and usually they focus more on pleasing you.  Lick nipples, penetrate one partner (if they are comfortable with that), finger them, or whatever you can do to stay involved.
7. Don't Confuse the Threesome with a RELATIONSHIP....A threesome is just that....a threesome.  You should not expect it to be an ongoing thing.  This means that there should probably be no cuddling afterwards and the third person should not sleep over.  Reassure your mate that you are committed to only them and you may end up having more threesomes in the future.

These are rules that I have found to be helpful in having a threesome.  I wish I had these rules before I had mine...

Do you have any rules to add?  Let me know...