How Long Can You Perform...

Oral? I was asked this question yesterday and my answer got a shocking response of "Come on. Really? That's too long".

Question: How long can/do you give head?

The answer to this question will vary from person to person. There are many factors that go into how long you can/ should give head....

• Are you REALLY into oral? I am a very "oral" person if you know what I mean. I LOVE giving it and it turns me on more to know that I am pleasing my man. You have to be into whatever you are doing, whether it's cleaning your home or shaft sucking, and you'll last longer.
• Is it the MAIN COURSE or and APPETIZER? Are you ONLY performing fellatio or are you getting him ready for the dive into the unknown? Of course, you will go for shorter periods if you will be having intercourse, but what do you do if it is the main course? Read the next bullet....
• Are you switching it up? If you are only performing oral (like around that time of the month), try using your hands in addition to your mouth. And don't forget to take care of his two little friends (balls, for the slow people). Stopping in the middle of performing and giving him a good handjob for a few and getting back to sucking is another way to switch it up to make your jaws last longer.
• Do you know what you are doing? Can you deepthroat or do you just suck the head? You have to perfect your craft...But if you are REALLY into what you are doing, you will know how to make it last...

My answer was about an hour...I explained that, in all, I may give head between 30 minutes to an hour. Ongoing head is a different story. If you know what you are doing, he should last [maybe] 15-20 minutes (if he's not a quick spitter, LOL).

Happy Sucking ;-)

Oral Sex: Fellatio

Fellatio, blow-job, giving head....No matter what you call it, most men love it...Yesterday, we discussed cunnilingus and I think it's only fair that fellatio become the topic for today.

Men aren't the only ones that like getting head, a lot of women like GIVING it.  I have come (cum) before from just giving head.  Thinking back on my first time (giving head), I laugh because I did not know wtf I was doing.  I couldn't deep-throat, didn't know how to coordinate my hands with the rapid up and down motion of my mouth....it was just horrible!  But practice made me better and now I consider myself decent.  Here are a few of my tips that I give out at my classes (and parties).

1. Get down and nasty...Most men LOVE sloppy head!  Allow the saliva to collect in your mouth as you play the flute.  This was the hardest thing for me to get over...being nice and neat.  Men love it when a woman (or man, I'm not here to judge) isn't afraid to get down and dirty to please them.
2. Use your hands....sometimes.  Personally, I like to do it with no hands, but some [men] prefer the use of hands in addition lips and tongue.  Place one hand around the shaft while you move up and down on the head of his penis.  Try to coordinate your movements so your hand and mouth are going up and down in unison.
3. Talk...to your partner and let them know what you are comfortable doing.  Also let them know what you are capable of doing.  This is the time to discuss swallowing, tea-bagging, the ability to deep-throat, etc.  
4. Know the dick...How are you going to please someone and you don't know your anatomy?  Every penis is different, and each has its sensitive spots and its preferred ways of being handled. Generally, the corona and frenulum are more sensitive than the base of the shaft of the penis. Listen to your lover. The sounds he makes and the feel of his body tensing are your best clues that you're going this right. Don't be afraid to ask him for specific spots to lick, kiss, or suck -- each man has his own preferences.    
5. Swallow....or not.  For many men, this is important to them -- they like to feel that by swallowing their semen, you complete this act of lovemaking and accept a part of themselves into your body. But many people don't like the taste of semen and can't bring themselves. Talk about this beforehand -- let him know if you can't handle it, and that it's not personal.

There is only one way to give head, with enthusiasm and confidence.  If you don't like and enjoy what you are doing, it will only end up being a bad experience for both parties involved.  

Hope you enjoyed the tips....Do you have any tips to add?