Is Three People A Crowd or A Party?!?!

Threesomes!!  What do you think of when you hear the word?  There are many types of threesomes a person can participate in but most people think about two women involved in a sexual experience with a man.  While this can bring excitement into the bedroom, there must be rules established....

1. Establish the Rules....People have their own rules and limits and all of those limits need to be understood by all parties involved.  A woman may not feel comfortable performing oral on another woman, your mate may not want you to penetrate another woman, etc. so make these things known before you engage in ANY sexual behaviors...
2. Don't get SLOPPY.....drunk that is.  I've seen people try and get drunk (or high) so that they can work up the courage to "do it"....This is not a good thing.  You want to be at your best when performing so have a few drinks to loosen up but don't go overboard.
3. Protect Yourself....This is really self- explanatory but I have to keep saying it because people still seem to think they are invincible...It is 2011, there are diseases that you can get and not get rid of and because you never know who someone has slept with, you need to WRAP IT UP or insist that he WRAPS IT UP.
4. Take Care Of Yourself....When you are sleeping with one person, both of you are concentrating on each other, but when you add another person to the mix, it may make it awkward to concentrate on two people at the same time.  Soooo, while the two women are paying attention to each other, take care of yourself so that you can stay turned on.  The same thing goes for a woman when the male is performing with the other partner. 
5. Don't Get Jealous....This kinda goes with the previous rule.  It is easy to get jealous of the person receiving the attention, but don't.  The attention usually rotates so just be patient....You'll get your chance.
6. Be A Giver....Focus on pleasing both women and usually they focus more on pleasing you.  Lick nipples, penetrate one partner (if they are comfortable with that), finger them, or whatever you can do to stay involved.
7. Don't Confuse the Threesome with a RELATIONSHIP....A threesome is just that....a threesome.  You should not expect it to be an ongoing thing.  This means that there should probably be no cuddling afterwards and the third person should not sleep over.  Reassure your mate that you are committed to only them and you may end up having more threesomes in the future.

These are rules that I have found to be helpful in having a threesome.  I wish I had these rules before I had mine...

Do you have any rules to add?  Let me know...