Sexual Taboos: Anal Sex

Regular sex is a taboo topic (which I think is absurd because it is 2011) and anal is STRICTLY FORBIDDEN.   Anal sex is like this....everyone is curious about it or already doing it but no one wants to talk about it.

WHY??

Why do people want to try anal?  For women, there is a spongy area in your rectum that, when it is hit directly, gives women what is equivalent to a g-spot orgasm.  It stimulates men's prostates and gives them pleasure also.  The feelings of euphoria you get afterwards is addictive and makes you keep wanting more and more.  There is also a natural curiosity about the body that makes men and women want to explore it. 

Experts estimate that one in four couples have had anal sex.  Now if you think about it, that is a lot of couples.  I believe the main reason most people don't want to talk about it is because they had a bad first experience.  Lack of lubrication, lack of relaxation, or lack of communication are most of the common reasons people have a bad first time, and hence, never try it again.  So anyways, here are some pointers for having a great first time or even enhance you ANAL experience.

1. Relax....How are you going to enjoy anything if you're tense and uptight?  The more relaxed you are, the more fun you are going to have and the experience will be more that much more enjoyable.
2. Make sure he's LUBED up....The anus is not like the vagina when it comes to lubrication; meaning it does not create its own juices (lubrication).  This just means that you will have to use some.  My first time trying anal was without any lube and the guy was a mandingo (ladies, you have to know your limit, but more on that in a minute).  Needless to say, it was not a pleasant experience.  As a matter of fact, he didn't even get the head all the way inside.  LOL!!!!  But it taught me a valuable lesson, always use lube back there. 
3. Use protection...I wanted to go ahead a throw this one in there....Hell, it is 2011 and there are more diseases than the public knows about so please protect yourself.  Another reason is because you can get tiny tears back there (reasons being, not enough lube, too rough, lack of communication, etc) because it is so sensitive and condoms will keep you from transferring bacteria into these tiny tears.  
4. Keep an open line of communication....Okay, so if you are practicing anal with someone, you should be able to communicate with them.  Communication is the only way he will know how you are feeling, so now is not the time to shut down.
5. Know your limit....Like I was telling y'all earlier, my first anal experience was with someone with the length of a ruler and the girth of  a biscuit can.  It was not pretty, fun, exciting, or any happy adjectives....THAT SHIT HURT.  And to top it off, it was without lube.  I cut that anal experience short.  I never should have tried a dick first; I should have used a toy (but I was 17 and didn't know WTF I was doing).  If you want to try it, consider using a toy first, like anal beads or an anal vibrator.  

 Do you have any tips?  Let me know what y'all think...